Just like manners matter we believe that first impressions matter. So, with back to school this week we’ve been thinking a lot about fall preparation and how to clean up, get ready, and meet new people. In this post, we’re highlighting some considerations while prepping for back-to-school or any situation where first impressions may be long-lasting.
Courtesy: You’ll meet new people. Don’t forget to smile, make eye contact, and do a proper greeting (“good morning”, “shake hands” - whatever is appropriate for your situation).
Dressing for Success: A solid balance of what comfort and class is a good strategy here. Yes, comfort is key. That said, it’s imperative that one gives more than a five second thought as to that first day outfit. Make sure it’s clean, fits well, and is odor and wrinkle-free.
Body Language Basics: Often times, first impressions are made from body language not even spoken words. Be sure to stand straight, look people in the eye and SMILE!
Punctuality and Respect: Be sure to be there on time or a minute or two (not more!) before the start time. Timeliness is a crucial aspect of showing respect.
The Power of “Please and Thank you”. This should be obvious, but in our modern world where much communication is through devices, communication is diminished and there’s not as much practice with common etiquette practices. Saying PLEASE when asking for something and THANK YOU after receipt is certain to win some major first impression points.
Mindful Listening: There’s a reason you’re meetings someone new - be in a peer, teacher, mentor or friend. Listen to the words, and recognize the body language, to ensure the engagement is a positive one.
Name Game: A common fail in 'first impressions’ is not recalling the name that was said. We have some super fun strategies to share when it comes to remembering names!
Tech-Free Zone: As a sign of respect, put the device in do-no-disturb or silence mode. This will also aid in the above actions (remembering names, mindful listening, etc.)
Yes, it’s easier said than done! Join our classes to spend some time focusing on and practicing these essential skills!